Portugal Vacation

The holiday season here at home is in full swing. By this, I mean that tourists from all over place are converging here, taking advantage of the fantastic weather. My vacations always coincide or are directly tied to those of my friends and family that are finding their way over.
Rarely do the planets align so that my wife and I take time off, so the time taken to spend with people who come not only to go to the beach, but to also include us in their itinerary, is like the vacation we can’t seem to take on our own. In the last couple of weeks alone, there have been many kilometres driven, many late nights, and many great meals. An uncle visiting from Toronto, a family reunion set up around my sister’s birthday, (first at our house, then off to a restaurant for cabrito and bacalhau. Then, back to our house). Niece and nephew visiting with respective beaus; seeing the local sights that will wow just about anybody, and albeit these four have travelled extensively, their level of enjoyment told me that here, we have something special. Sunday, off to Porto to see the Cure in a packed stadium. Those sixty-somethings played a two-and-a-half-hour set! It was sweet to see a band as iconic as that for the first time. I had never seen so many old timers wearing band attire.
Before all this, we had received a couple of dear friends from Toronto, and then another from Tomar, who came to visit bearing tickets to the theatre for the four of us. This is more action than we experience in a year! Makes me think we may need to consider taking a little more initiative. I’m exaggerating, but you get my drift. Sometimes we spend too much time thinking about things, something that eventually may end up taking up all of our time. Plus, it’s nice to also do things in your own time. It’s so easy to sit back and relax the same way you always do, hell, it’s even very pleasurable, but there’s so much out there, even close by, that anyone can enjoy. It’s like being invited to a party, not really wanting to go, but you can’t say no, yet soon after arriving you’re glad you went. We really need to get off our butts and start enjoying ourselves. Who cares about CNN and Netflix. They’ll always be there, but it doesn’t mean you have to be. One of the best moves my wife and I pulled off was cancelling cable. We got sick and tired of watching the same crap every day. That was 12, or so, years ago. Since then, we’ve watched whatever we find interesting on the half-dozen open signal channels available. Actually, since three of them are riddled with soap operas and reality shows, we really only have three to choose from, on a good day. But that’s ok, miraculously one finds other things to do! Go figure! Even at night, there are other things to do besides TV.
Let’s get out there, folks, who knows what you’ll find. If you can, stay up good and late every once in a while, I find it energizing!
Fiquem bem!
Raul Freitas/MS

